If crying is a kind of catharsis, don't hold back, tears can wash away cowardice sometimes; if loneliness is a state, don't be silent, only make your own voice, can you find your position; if giving up is a kind of free and easy, don't be too persistent. When you let go, you should be willing to let go, and when you turn around, you should be resolute. Life needs us to move forward in tears, and then inadvertently give you a smile. No hypocrisy, no flattery, no tact, not obsessed by the secular world, not trapped by material desires, do things conscientiously and be a down-to-earth person. Life is not perfect, twists and turns are also scenery. Don't take the loss too seriously, give up is another kind of possession; don't often envy others, people do, the heart realized, believe that the scenery belongs to you is in the next corner. Worry comes from the heart, and every situation is created by the heart. If you can't control your destiny, it will control you; if you can't put your mind right, your life is bound to tilt. To grasp one's own destiny, one should cultivate a good attitude: what you can't see, don't explore too much, you don't need to know everything; what you can't see through, you don't need to be grieved about, only saints can see through the world; if you can't see through, change your perspective, maybe everything will be bright.